so you're a real man?

Most men are masculine but this doesn’t mean that all the rest who are not are gays. 

Nowadays I am surrounded by male friends of different kinds. Some are still single even after reaching their 40’s. Some are not the sporty-type muscle-filled chaps who don’t even go the gym, don’t smoke, don’t have number two or three girlfriends, and plain homebodies. But there’s no indication I can see just yet that all or one of them is a she-male. No, I can’t accept that kind of notion! 

What makes it so sure for many that all the ones who worship happy hours drinking, smoking and collecting women make these people way manlier over others who don’t? I am even more convinced that most of the discreet “lefties” will choose to do such macho man tricks to cover up their real personality. 

Let us not judge people by mainly seeing things at the outside. It doesn’t make one any manlier by making fun of others just because their actions seemed to be outside the norm. In fact, some who claim that they are real men maybe deceived by their own perspectives. A real man, I believe, doesn’t waste time asking around if someone is straight or not. A real man cares about how others would feel and builds respect all the time.

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